Matching, astrology & romance

Frequency suggests people you'd genuinely click with, built from real signals: the circles you share, the people you both know, and the rhythms you keep. A couple of extra signals are optional and off until you turn them on, in Settings, Connections & Location.

The astrology signal

Turn this on and add your birth date, and we'll add a quiet note like your signs click to suggestions, but only for people who also opted in. It's a soft touch, never a verdict, and it never reorders your feed on its own.

• Only your sign is used. We work out your sun sign from your birth date and use that. Your birth date itself is never shown to anyone.
• Both sides choose it. You only ever see the astrology note next to someone who also turned it on.

Romance mode

If you're open to more than friendship, you can turn on romance mode. It's built to be calm and safe, not a dating-app grind.

• It's mutual, always. You only ever appear to, and see, people who also turned romance mode on. Nobody who hasn't opted in is involved, and you're invisible in this lane to everyone who hasn't.
• Verified to appear. You can browse here right away, but you'll only appear to others once you're verified. Verifying is easy and on-brand: show up to an event and check in at the door. That's it.
• No swiping. There's no card stack to burn through. We surface a few people you already share circles or connections with, in a clearly labeled "Open to connection" row on your feed.
• You're in control. Turn it off anytime, and use the X to remove anyone you're not interested in. We won't suggest them again.

Meeting safely

However you connect, the safe way to meet is the Frequency way: at a circle or a public event, around something you both care about. See Meeting people safely for the full guide, and remember the promise we always keep: your exact location is never shared.